Lucky 2023

The year 2023 ..will be remembered for personal reasons  ..started with lots of love and blessings ,with a lot of gratitude in my heart for family and the life I have and how lucky I am for where I was born .

I was diagnosed with gross hydronephrosis and needed immediate pyeloplasty surgery to correct this  condition. It was not easy on my family or on me I was stressed and worried and not looking fwd to any surgery or pain .I wanted to deal with life as it comes and even thought why me ?? The thoughts bogged me down until I thought what if it was not diagnosed and something serious would occur ,then I started having a shift in my thought and thought about how I am lucky and shouldn't worry .

I had entire family there for me ,hoping for my recovery and wanting to see me smile ad laugh ,I felt special and felt lucky 💓. 

All we need in life is love ,great family and good health ,we can't disregard money in this category 🖖

Year 2020

 The year that no one wants to talk about ...the year we are tired of retrospection ...the year that drove us all crazy and all things beautiful as well when we counted our blessings ,the year which taught us to be grateful for smaller things and appreciate beauty in everyday things like the 🌞  the moon ,trees  🐦 etc 

Started the year thinking it was going to be my year and had few travel plans and surprises but yeah no regrets at the end of the year I did realise I wasn't an extrovert after all..I was self content with good food and internet on my side, there wasn't anything much I craved for 🤫, of course I miss family like crazy ...wish I could time travel sometimes when all I want is some quality time with parents ,some laughter with cousins and tight hugs 🫂 with friends.

Blind Love

"Love is Blind" said somebody .."Maybe" i nodded.
          Who better than me could be an advocate of Blind love  . I have been in love with people i have never met , I have been in love with a person's jokes / Voice . I do remember falling for a guy who i thought was just perfect because he had a nice Butt and ordered my fav ice-cream . I also remember meeting someone for the first time and seeing him eat Biryani and tell my friend ,"I have to marry this guy ".

Sometimes you can mistake attraction to love ,lust for love and also sometimes you never understand love coz darling love takes effort , time and energy !!
          

International Yoga day

Its funny how you get stereotyped based on your skin colour, ethnicity etc . While i was in India people asked me if i was from Kerala to North east India to Bengali to anything other than a Bangalorean . I did not quiet get it how i looked so different to them and for me i looked like a typical Bangalore Girl .In Australia  , sometimes i get people asking me where am i from ..which makes me laugh and reply Indian politely. I have been asked if i was from Fiji,Mauritius, Singapore etc .. Irrespective of what my passport says i am still Indian coz of my Skin colour .

So the other day i was in the train with my earphones on , listening to some romantic song and trying to fall asleep . This lady sitting next to me stares for a while so i just removed the headphones and looked in her direction . She asked me if i was Indian ..I was like yeah with a smile and trying to shake my head in disbelief how she wanted to ask me such a lame question and spoil my precious half an hr nap time . She then continued to ask where did i go for Yoga session as it was International Yoga day ...I was taken aback , because i had no clue that it was a yoga day , had i known i would have brushed up on some Yoga skills . I said "No,  I don't do any Yoga" . The lady next to me looked at my face in disbelief , like i hurt her sentiments . She told me she meditates and does yoga and it has benefited her a lot . We both smiled and i nodded in agreement .

It was a funny encounter as a White lady was telling a brown one benefits of Yoga :)

Romance in the lift ..

Growing up i hardly watched movies , over the past 18 yrs i have been a movie buff and catch up on every movie belonging every language, irrespective of language barrier i just watch them with or without subtitles . I am a bit weird that way .
I'm hopelessly romantic and all my fantasies run in my head all the time ..so i have had this crazy idea , thanks to some pathetic movie , of being stuck in a lift with a good looking guy ...When i was single i hoped every other day that i would meet this real hot guy in leather jacket and cool shades ( not sure why he would be wearing his shades in the lift) stuck in the lift with me .
So this happened few days ago , I was running late to pick my son and got into this shady lift at work and it stopped at 17th floor and a tall good looking guy got in ..i just looked and kept staring at my phone as i was running late and then the lift comes to a halt. We are stuck .  Did i miss a beat ?? Did i get scared a hug him ?? NOOOO Nothing happened i kept banging all the buttons and trying to push the door , He just told me to calm down and someone will get us . It wasn't even 2 minutes and the lift started again and we reached the ground floor . As embarrassing as the whole incident was im still hoping i don't bump into him in the lift ..he might look at me and go "ohh there goes the crazy woman!! "

Wobbly Tile !!

Have you ever walked on the pavement and stepped on a wobbly tile and stepped again and felt happy ? If not try it ..I'm always stepping on the wobbly tiles , it gives a child like pleasure .Nobody needs to know , gives you cheap thrill .
Like i mentioned earlier i do love to test the tiles when i walk , this afternoon i stepped on a tile near the traffic light and it wobbled and i giggled to myself , yeah i thought no one saw it but a gentleman , who was all suited up give me the weird glance and then smiled .

Go find your wobbly tile and let loose ;)

Aliens vs Humans

I am a space enthusiast..yeah i really am intrigued with the way the universe is and how insignificant we as a race are, who are living and destroying our planet.I get super excited when i read articles about some new discoveries related to space .Mars mission makes me believe we could find some interesting news soon or who knows we have already made some discoveries which the government doesn't want us to know.
I do believe in the existence of parallel universe .I do believe we aren't alone and species greater than us have visited and lived amongst us ..can't quite tell if they continue to live between us or have left us to fend for ourselves.
I read an article yesterday about how Roswell was real and the incident actually occurred ,for someone who watched this series n was in love with the main protagonist.This news is as good as it gets . We might soon hear Smallville was real and Clark Kent wasn't an art of fiction :) or the Gods weren't just written in books and they walked the earth way before us , maybe the answers are all written in the Vedas for us to explore and understand them better .